The Idiot's Guide To Marriage

Saturday, March 10, 2007

Sometimes I forget

Sometimes the pro's and cons of marriage get all tangled up in my mind with the benefits of my singledom.

Not having to answer to anyone, tell them where I'm going or when I'll be back, not having to explain why I blogged all day, or didn't get their shirts cleaned. Not having to go to bed at a certain time or get up at a certain time. Not getting bitched out for petty things.

But then there's the flipside, no one to come home to, kiss hello or goodbye, no one to know if you've been gone too long and might be dead, no one to snuggle with at night...a cold and empty bed and lonliness in an empty home. Someone to stare at and wonder why they want to be with you, someone to sit with and watch tv, someone to motivate me to cook decent meals, or curtail my spending habits. And someone to do stuff with that is fun.

I wonder about all of this and think I probably don't want to grow old alone. I wonder if the third time is the charm? I really like the B-man, he is snuggly yet manly, he smells good, feels good and makes me laugh. I wouldn't mind coming home to him everyday, and I wonder if he feels the same about me.....

5 comment(s):

Yeah, sometimes it's so nice to come home to someone, no matter the benefits of singledom.

I think the best possible situation would be having a girlfriend in my neighborhood who has her own place. I think that's what I'm working on at this point.

By Blogger Matt, at 2:09 PM  

matt: I agree, although brett is near, I don't see him as much as I would like, so I wish to find a happy medium

By Anonymous Anonymous, at 2:47 PM  

See I have this theory. if you do not bitch at people for petty things, then they like you more.

Yea there are going to be fights. I guess those are unavoidable. But they need not progress beyond the verbal part. I dislike violence, unless it is in a video game or something.

So that is my plan. No bitching about petty things, no GPS tracker, and so on.

By Blogger The Lazy Iguana, at 11:08 AM  

The pros for me are stability, safety, support, money. we don't snuggle much, I am too tired, worn out. I like having the bed to myself, it is so darn tiny! And those cons are really truly a pain in the ass. But without them, I would never get anything done.

I need to go to bed now. I am getting so tired.

By Blogger Lavender, at 9:43 PM  

QZ,

You sold me on he smells good. If he makes you laugh he's a keeper. Have wild sex with him and then start to hold back.

By Anonymous smackingmypattie, at 6:04 PM  

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